Exam Stress
May 4, 2008 – 11:37 amExam time causes a lot of stress in the family – and not only for the young person who is due to take the exam. So what can you do to help your child or teenager to minimise their stress?
Getting a good night’s sleep before an exam is excellent preparation for the day ahead, so we have compiled some tried and trusted “Do’s and Don’ts” that you can pass on to them. The relaxation exercise works for adults too!
Exam time causes a lot of stress in the family – and not only for the young person who is due to take the exam. So what can you do to help your child or teenager to minimise their stress?
Getting a good night’s sleep before an exam is excellent preparation for the day ahead, so we have compiled some tried and trusted “Do’s and Don’ts” that you can pass on to them. The relaxation exercise works for adults too!
GOOD THINGS TO DO
- Have a warm milky drink or herbal tea before bed.
- Have a warm, fragrant bath before bed (not a hot one, see below)
- Browse through a magazine or read a chapter of a (non school) book before putting out the light.
- Listen to some relaxing music
- Practise a simple relaxation exercise (see below)
THINGS TO AVOID
- AVOID the temptation to stay up late studying so that you are over-tired, as your memory cannot retain things when your brain is exhausted.
- AVOID stimulants such as tea, coffee or cola drinks for at least four hours before going to bed.
- AVOID having a hot bath before you go to bed, as it is very stimulating.
- AVOID watching anything too exciting on TV before you go to bed, as it is difficult to then unwind.
How to Relax
When you are anxious or stressed you tend to worry a lot and things go round and round in your head, which is a waste of energy. Worrying about a problem solves nothing!
The opposite of being stressed and anxious is to be relaxed and calm.
Practising a simple relaxation exercise before you go to sleep can help you to wind down and to get things into perspective.
Here is a very simple, very effective relaxation exercise, which you can practise in bed and then drift off to sleep. You can also do this at other times during the day when you are feeling tense or if you need to take a break from studying.
Try this Relaxation Exercise
Sit comfortably in a chair with your feet flat on the floor and your hands resting in your lap OR lie in bed with your legs uncrossed and your arms by your sides.
Be aware of your right arm (and say to yourself, slowly)
MY RIGHT ARM IS HEAVY, MY RIGHT ARM IS HEAVY, MY RIGHT ARM IS HEAVYBe aware of your left arm:
MY LEFT ARM IS HEAVY, MY LEFT ARM IS HEAVY, MY LEFT ARM IS HEAVYBoth my arms are heavy, both my arms are heavy, both my arms are heavy
Be aware of your right leg:
MY RIGHT LEG IS HEAVY, MY RIGHT LEG IS HEAVY, MY RIGHT LEGY IS HEAVYBe aware of your left leg:
MY LEFT LEG IS HEAVY, MY LEFT LEG IS HEAVY, MY LEFT LEG IS HEAVYBoth my legs are heavy, both my legs are heavy, both my legs are heavy
My arms & legs are heavy, my arms & legs are heavy, my arms & legs are heavy
Be aware of your neck and shoulders:
MY NECK & SHOULDERS ARE HEAVY, MY NECK & SHOULDERS ARE HEAVY,
MY NECK & SHOULDERS ARE HEAVYBe aware of your jaw:
MY JAW IS HEAVY, MY JAW IS HEAVY, MY JAW IS HEAVYBe aware of your eyelids:
MY EYELIDS ARE HEAVY, MY EYELIDS ARE HEAVY, MY EYELIDS ARE HEAVYBe aware of your heartbeat
MY HEARTBEAT IS REGULAR & STEADY, MY HEARTBEAT IS REGULAR & STEADY,
MY HEARTBEAT IS REGULAR & STEADYI AM CALM, RELAXED AND PEACEFUL
I AM CALM, RELAXED AND PEACEFUL
I AM CALM, RELAXED AND PEACEFUL